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Saturday, May 18, 2013

Happy Birthday to Us!

Jai and my birthday is just 3 weeks apart. For this year, Jai and I opted for intimate celebrations with only each other and our immediate family.

For my birthday, we went to Pangasinan to Our Lady of Manaoag then ate at Vikings with Jai and my parents. 



We went to Manaoag because I firmly believe that when you pray and request from Our Lady, it will be given to you. Right now, I will keep my birthday request a secret. Hopefully in time, it will be granted and I could tell everyone about it.

Jai had his birthday salubong with me and his friends at Distillery in Eastwood. We spent the entire day together, ate at Stacey's and ironically went to the doctor to visit my optha. The results of our visit to the doctor was perhaps my birthday gift for Jai (I will tell you about the good news in another post). Finally in the evening, we celebrated with our families at their house in Ipil. 


This is our first birthday celebration as Mr. & Mrs. I know for Jai it is a very different kind of celebration from what he is used to. But I am happy that he changed all that and spent his birthday with me. 

I don't really mind where we celebrate our birthdays as long as we celebrate them together. I am definitely looking forward to more birthdays filled with love and celebrated with each other. <3 

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Chasing Angels or Fleeing Demons

I can't for the life of me understand this craze over mountaineering. For me, a one-hour Thai massage or facial would be time worth spending as opposed to traversing a mountain for hours or even days!!

But as they say, love conquers all. Since my husband is so into mountain climbing, for the love of him, I needed to try it out. I needed to know this side of him and understand where he is coming from. I don't think this interest in mountain climbing is going to die anytime soon, so might as well get on with the program and enjoy the show.

And so, last weekend, I joined him and our friends on a day hike to Mt. Batulao in Nasugbu Batangas. Since Jai & I have yet to really test my capabilities, interest and passion for this sport, we decided a simple day hike is a good place for me start.

Here's a little background on Mt. Batulao:

MT. BATULAO
Nasugbu, Batangas
Jump-off point: Evercrest Golf Course, Nasugbu
LLA: 14.0408 N 120.8011 E 811 MASL
Days required / Hours to summit: 1 day / 2-4 hours
Specs: Minor climb, Difficulty 4/9, Trail class 3 with 60-70 degrees assault
Features: Open trails, rolling slopes, scenic views of Batangas
information taken from pinoymountaineer

photo from pinoymountaineer.com
Our group decided to take the Old Trail going up and then down the New Trail. It looks pretty short and easy in the pictures but looks can be deceiving!

To be honest, Jai and I really did not physically prepare for this day hike. We did not exercise nor diet before this trip at all. So I knew that my only weapon for surviving Mt. Batulao was to be mentally prepared. As the weekend came close, we asked Chrys [who was the only person from the group who has been to Mt. Batulao] what we could expect from this trail. I also read through pinoymountaineer.com for information that would help me better prepare for our upcoming trip.

We left Manila at around 5 in the morning and finally reached Nasugbu by 7. After settling down and changing into our hiking outfits, by 8 am we were on our way. Our hands clasped together, with only our enthusiasm and sheer will power to get us through the day. So help us God.

photo by Ruel Abion
We opted to walk all the way to the start of the trail instead of taking the tricycle. By the time we reached the little bahay kubo at the tip of the fork that separated the old and new trail, I was already dizzy and nauseous from the heat.

photo by Ruel Abion
Jai and Chrys asked me if I still wanted to continue. I didn't want to quit so early in the trip, of course not! We barely even begun so backing out is not an option. I was thinking that this was only a matter of will power and I knew I had it in me to finish this trail.

Good thing, one of our group mates offered to lend me his hat. That actually helped me a lot. I realized as we continued on with our hike, that I no longer felt nauseous and dizzy. I felt my heart beating steadily. I was able to hike and climb with the rest of the group with no complains! It was like my body suddenly jump start and just needed time like a diesel engine to finally warm up and run smoothly. But once my body got used to hiking, it was like I didn't want to stop.

After 3 hours of hiking, we are finally near the peak.

photo by Ruel Abion
The last part to the peak required us to climb up a short rocky slope. From the bottom it looked quite intimidating. But thanks to my coaches Jai and Chrys, I was able to reach the top!

Finally!!! We've reached the peak!!!! Yehey! 

photo by Ruth Cabria

photo by Ruth Cabria
Of course, we can't leave without the required group shot at the peak. After we ate halo-halo and drank Mountain Dew. Yup, that's right. There is a little store on the peak that sold halo halo and soda. =)

photo by Ruth Cabria

Now for the long road down....


The last leg of the hike was extra difficult for Jai and I since we ran out of water. With the scorching afternoon heat, both of us were ready to pass out. The whole time, all I could think of was that we're almost there. After an hour and a half, at 4 in the afternoon, we finally reached our pit stop.

Looking back, the trail wouldn't have been that hard if it weren't for the hot, dry weather. The trail was bare under the heat of the summer sun at noon with barely any winds. It was really a struggle against the elements that added to the difficulty of the trail.

But what I realized about this trip was that, the whole time, I didn't or couldn't think of anything else but reaching the peak. Other concerns were all far away, left here in Manila. I felt a certain relief that even for a few hours, I didn't have to think about them. Although I enjoyed the challenge of a day hike, I am unsure if I have the passion to fully immerse myself into the sport and join them on their 5 day trips. Well, maybe if my backpack matched my hiking shoes.... just kidding!

I'm sure people have their own definition of mountain climbing but for me, I think it is best described by author Jeff Rasley, writer of Bringing Progress to Paradise: What I Got from Giving to a Mountain Village in Nepal when he said that if you are "chasing angels or fleeing demons, go to the mountains". So maybe, just maybe, in times when I feel like clearing my head or run away from it all -- I might do this again.

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Remembering Papa Arthur

Arthur Brown Tamula 
January 11, 1932 - January 26, 2013


Today is my grandfather's 40th day.

It is a Filipino Catholic belief that the soul wanders the earth for 40 days after death. This is a belief rooted in Christ's resurrection on Easter Day and his ascension to Heaven. Just like Jesus Christ, finally after 40 days, we say goodbye to Papa Arthur. He has now crossed over to eternal life in Heaven with God and my grandmother, Mama Babe. 

To celebrate his ascension to heaven, I would want to share with everyone my short eulogy for my lolo on the day of his funeral: 

"You are all here to honor and remember a man who to you may be a friend, boss, land lord, benefactor, brother, cousin or father. But to me, he is Papa Arthur. 

I remember him as a child when we would spend summer vacations in Kolambugan. Early in the morning, he would always be in his office watching the people in his store from his one-way mirror. I would go to his office and he would greet me with a warm smile and big hug. Then at the end of the day, in the rare moments he would join us in the music room to watch a movie, he would be snoring even before the movie began. 

That is my Papa Arthur, a simple man who is very easy to love. He has helped so many people with his generosity not just with his resources but also with his love, affection, friendship and time. 

Papa, you will always be in our hearts. I am proud to be the granddaughter of Arthur Tamula. Thank you for being our Papa. We love you." 

Weep not for me though I am gone into that gentle night.  
Grieve if you will, but not for long upon my soul's sweet flight.
I am at peace; my soul's at rest there is no need for tears.
For with your love I was so blessed for all those many years.
There is no pain; I suffer not, the fear now all is gone.
Put now these things out of your thoughts, in your memory I live on.

Remember not my fight for breath, remember not the strife.

Please do not dwell upon my death, but celebrate my life."
 - unknown

 

Monday, February 11, 2013

So now what?

After almost a year of planning, the "I Do's" have been said, the gifts have been opened and the honeymoon is over. The 12.08.12 most awaited wedding ceremony and celebration is done. So now what? 

Now, the adventure begins. We embark into the most exciting part of our life together as husband and wife.  As the dust settles and the buzz die down. Jai and I learn how it is to live together and discover each others quirkiness. 

With nothing but hearts full of love and moments filled with laughter, we journey off into the unknown. Please allow us to share with you every little triumph and disappointment, as we live the life we love. <3 

photo by Wesley OraƱa

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